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Recommended Books
A curated collection of books that have shaped my practice and may enrich your journey
About These Recommendations
Books have been my companions on this journey—teachers, mirrors, and sources of inspiration. Throughout my [X]+ years of practice, certain books have profoundly shaped my understanding of human psychology, therapeutic practice, and personal growth.
I've curated this list for various audiences: fellow professionals seeking to deepen their practice, clients wanting to complement their therapeutic work, and anyone interested in personal development. Each book has earned its place here through the wisdom it offers and the transformation it can catalyze.
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Transactional Analysis
TA today
by Ian Stewart
Transactional AnalysisA New Introduction to Transactional Analysis by Ian Stewart and Vann Joines is a widely-used, accessible guide to Transactional Analysis (TA), a psychological model for understanding personality,
Why I Recommend This:
This book offers a clear and accessible introduction to Transactional Analysis. Its straightforward explanations and visual approach make it especially suitable for those new to the topic.
Born to Win
by Muriel James & Dorothy Jongeward
Transactional AnalysisTransactional Analysis (TA) and Gestalt therapy exercises to help readers understand their behavior, improve communication, and gain control over their lives
Why I Recommend This:
An intermediate book to TA and Gestalt therapy. This book includes worksheets and exercises to help you understand and apply the concepts learnt.
Cathexis Reader
by Jacqui Lee Schiff
Transactional AnalysisThe book, developed by the Cathexis Institute, presents a framework for understanding and treating severe psychiatric disorders, particularly psychosis, using Transactional Analysis (TA)
Why I Recommend This:
A slightly advanced book to understand the concepts of Transactional Analysis and how to apply them in a clinical setting - primarly the structural aspects of psycotherapy.
Games People Play
by Eric Berne
Transactional AnalysisThe foundational text of Transactional Analysis, exploring the psychological games people play in their daily interactions and relationships.
Why I Recommend This:
This book revolutionized how I understand communication patterns. Berne's insights into social transactions are as relevant today as when first published in 1964. It's essential reading for anyone wanting to understand their relational dynamics.
I'm OK - You're OK
by Thomas A. Harris
Transactional AnalysisA practical guide to Transactional Analysis that makes the concepts accessible to everyone, focusing on life positions and personal transformation.
Why I Recommend This:
This is often the first TA book I recommend to clients. Harris presents complex psychological concepts in clear, relatable language. It's transformative for understanding how our childhood experiences shape our adult relationships.
Psychodrama
Fundamentals of Psycodrama
by Falko von Ameln & Jochen Becker-Ebel
PsychodramaA comprehensive, practical guide to psychodrama that explains its philosophy, stages, techniques for a beginner to understand the basics of psychodrama.
Why I Recommend This:
A beginner friendly book, one of the most accessible and thorough introductions to psychodrama.
The Healing Circle - Myth, Rituals and Therapy
by John Moser
PsychodramaThis book explores how ancient mythic structures and ritual—symbolized through the healing circle—can be used to understand psychological development, life transitions, and therapeutic change.
Why I Recommend This:
An advanced read, I recommend it because it offers a deep, integrative framework that bridges psychology, mythology, and ritual practice, making it especially valuable for therapists, coaches, and facilitators who work with meaning, identity, and transformation rather than symptom-only models.
Psycodrama, Surplus Reality and the Art of healing
by Zerka Morena, Leif Dag Blomkvisit & Thomas Rutzel
PsychodramaThis book explores the core psychodramatic concept of surplus reality—a therapeutic space beyond ordinary reality where imagined, symbolic, and transformative enactments help individuals access deep emotional truths and facilitate healing.
Why I Recommend This:
I recommend it because it deepens your understanding of psychodrama’s most powerful therapeutic mechanism—surplus reality—and provides both philosophical insight and practical context.
Gestalt Therapy
Gestalt Therapy: Excitement and Growth in the Human Personality
by Frederick Perls, Ralph Hefferline, Paul Goodman
Gestalt TherapyThe definitive text on Gestalt therapy, presenting the theory and practice of present-centered awareness and personal responsibility.
Why I Recommend This:
While academically dense, this book is invaluable for understanding Gestalt principles. The emphasis on awareness, contact, and the here-and-now has profoundly influenced my therapeutic approach.
Gestalt Therapy Verbatim
by Frederick Perls
Gestalt TherapyTranscripts of Fritz Perls' therapy sessions and workshops, offering a direct look at Gestalt therapy in action.
Why I Recommend This:
Reading these transcripts is like sitting in on Perls' sessions. You see the power of staying with present experience and the transformative nature of awareness. Essential for anyone studying Gestalt.
Trauma
The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment
by Babette Rothschild
TraumaThis book explains how traumatic experiences are stored not just in the mind but in the body’s implicit memory, and shows how clinicians can integrate somatic awareness and safe, non-touch techniques into trauma therapy to help clients regulate physiological responses and heal.
Why I Recommend This:
A simple yet insightful book that helps us understand how trauma lives in the body and how becoming aware of bodily responses to external triggers can aid recovery.
Philosophy & Psychology
Breaking free from the Victim Trap
by Diane Zimberoff
Philosophy & Psychologyself-help book that helps readers identify and overcome self-defeating patterns, often linked to addiction and codependency, by connecting present issues to past causes.
Why I Recommend This:
I would recommend Breaking Free from the Victim Trap because it helps readers shift from a mindset of helplessness to one of personal responsibility and agency, offering a clear framework for understanding how past experiences shape present behavior and how conscious awareness can lead to lasting emotional change.
Happy Family - Parenting Through Family Rituals
by Pearl Drego
Philosophy & PsychologyThis book explores how family rituals—simple, everyday practices that bring families together—can transform parenting from stressful to joyful, enhancing emotional connection and positive behavior in children.
Why I Recommend This:
A insightful book about parenting and family life using concepts of TA that can be easily applied.
The Hero with a Thousand Faces
by Joseph Campbell
Philosophy & PsychologyExplores the archetypal patterns and universal mythic structures (the 'hero's journey') that resonate across cultures and time, providing deep insight into the psychological meaning of myths and stories.
Why I Recommend This:
Campbell’s work illuminated the common threads running through the world’s myths, which continues to inspire both personal reflection and a sense of shared humanity. It’s a compelling exploration for anyone interested in psychology, culture, or their own life’s journey.
The Four Agreements
by Don Miguel Ruiz
Philosophy & PsychologyA concise guide rooted in Toltec wisdom that lays out four simple yet profound agreements to live by—be impeccable with your word, don’t take anything personally, don’t make assumptions, and always do your best—that can transform your life by shifting habitual patterns and encouraging personal freedom.
Why I Recommend This:
This book’s direct approach to self-limiting beliefs and practical wisdom makes it easy to apply and revisit anytime. Its principles emphasize clarity, integrity, and personal responsibility, offering tools for lasting emotional and relational change.
Man's Search for Meaning
by Viktor Frankl
Philosophy & PsychologyPart memoir, part lesson in psychology, this classic details Frankl’s experiences in Nazi concentration camps and outlines his psychological approach—logotherapy—which posits that the search for meaning, even in the most difficult circumstances, is the central human motivational force.
Why I Recommend This:
Frankl’s story of survival and his reflections on finding meaning amid suffering are both heart-wrenching and uplifting. This book is a profound reminder of the power of perspective, resilience, and purpose when facing life’s challenges.
Leadership & Change Management
The Heart of Change
by John Kotter
Leadership & Change ManagementThis book explores how successful change happens by addressing the emotional and human dimensions of transformation, rather than relying solely on logic, data, and analysis.
Why I Recommend This:
I recommend this book because it highlights the importance of emotion, storytelling, and human motivation in driving meaningful change—making it especially valuable for leaders, trainers, and facilitators working with people rather than just processes.
Change Management Masterclass
by Mike Green
Leadership & Change ManagementThis book offers a practical, systems-oriented approach to leading and embedding organizational change, combining strategy, psychology, and real-world case studies.
Why I Recommend This:
I recommend this book because it bridges theory and practice, helping leaders understand not just how to design change initiatives, but how to work with resistance, culture, and human behavior in complex organizations.
Cultures and Organizations
by Geert Hofsteded
Leadership & Change ManagementThis book offers a powerful, practical guide to healing from abuse and trauma, helping readers reclaim their lives and rebuild their sense of safety and self-worth. It is a book that is sure to inspire and uplift you.
Why I Recommend This:
I would recommend The Power of Now because it helps readers shift from a mindset of helplessness to one of personal responsibility and agency, offering a clear framework for understanding how past experiences shape present behavior and how conscious awareness can lead to lasting emotional change.
Our Iceberg Is Melting
by John Kotter & Holger Rathgeber
Leadership & Change ManagementTold as a simple fable, this book uses the story of a penguin colony to illustrate the challenges of recognizing, communicating, and successfully navigating change.
Why I Recommend This:
I recommend this book because it makes complex change-management principles accessible and memorable, helping leaders and teams understand emotional resistance to change in a non-threatening, story-based way.
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Reading is a powerful complement to therapeutic work. If you're interested in exploring these concepts further through counselling, coaching, or our support groups, I'd be happy to support you.
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